I always thought being friends meant doing everything together, experincing new stuff with each other, and keeping memories of that we can share as we grow older.
As I grow older, I see that new friends have their own other lives, which is normal as I have been lacking in thier last 20 years or so.
But, when you realise an old friend, whom always thought that she is your closest friend had another life, and did stuff that you always thought you'd do together, things change.
I have been fond of this girl in particular, she meant alot to me.. but nowadays I don't even want to listen to her explain what the hell changed her! And she had fought with me just a month ago that I was the one who's drifting away.. Well, Deemo.. If I drifted, it's cuz you drove me away.
We we're never friends cuz we were alike, and you know that.. you are what I hate in Saudis! and I am what you hate in them too.. But that never stoped us from hanging out and being best friends.. But now it is why I don't even want to see you, or talk to you ever again.
Funny how an 8 year friendship can be gone in a stupid act of a so called so Saudi grown up..
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i wish i could give like a smart advice or something but i don't know what happened between guys and it's up to you both to sit down and figure it out..
but i guess sometimes it's ok to do stuff away from your friends..the important thing is: does she really care for you? wii she be there if u needed her? other things might seem small if the answer to that is yes :D
I care, and she does too..
But ever since we fought about this a month ago, I started treating her like what she expected me to do for her, and then BAM!! She doesn't even deserve the time I took just to share with her more -EVERYTHING- into my life!!
I don't advice Bassem, thanks. All I need is to vent..
**I don't need
Yes, vent Fo0f! I don't know why people always try to calm you down when you start ranting about something. Just let us bitch as much as we want, it's in our blogs that we're doing that, after all.
kinda sucks... after all those years and now your friendship ends! bss yealla... im sure you have your reasons... hope things work out (if thats what you want of course).... good luck!
dear friend,
you are the only person who can decide whether this broken friendship will ever cured again..when conflicts occur, specially between friends, then it takes time to recover and things get back to normal..sometimes i get in fights with my best friends, and what do i do? i just let it go and i dont think about it for a while..by doing that i can clear up my mind and i can think of what happened leisurely.
wish u all the best ;)
Feedz,
all I do here is vent, people rant about a lot of stuff, I do about me and my life..
lol.. maybe I should start writing a story too :P
Day Dreamer
I want it to work.. :(
just not for her, for mom, as mom is her moms friend since high school.. Thanks
Ahmed
My way is the silent way.. and expect others to come to me with thier sorries. I kinda told her I was mad twice now.. Thanks again Ahmed..
Loved this line too. I feel like that about many friends. We grow up and change, and so do our friends, and people we grow up to be do not necessarily like people our friends grow up to be. Some friendships just fade away.
Make new friends!
:^)
-Meesh
lol, I seconed that..
Welcome to my blog ;)
QatarCat-
Seconed that again, I thought you're not Qatari, so you're Saudi huh :P..
Thanks gurl, I am and I will :P
Oh c'mon!
Dont let a trivial thing affect ur 8-yr long friendship!
My next post is abt something similar as well...
hmm...do tell more..
sad thing..I hop you 2 fix it up 8)
ČħéèŝŶ.ŦēřmiŦę-
Hey there.. I called her today :'( she didn't pick up :'( I don't want to end this I just want her to apologize!
-Sami
Don't Therepize me :'( -is that a real word :\-
Itachi-
Tell me about it :(.. Are you back yet?
All I can say is time changes people, I guess.
Taqwa..
Don't blame time :P
Bal8ees..
lol, ana el a'3ane ele t3l8 bbale tfshl like the song from the cartoon Anastasia!! "Once upon a December".. I HATE THAT SONG!!
Anyhoo.. I luv the girl, but this is too low, I called her twice now! And I can't do more. Thing is; mama seems to know somehow =S today she'z asking me whats between us? I said nothing, I'm seeing her on Wed as we usually do.. I mean mom!! mn mta u can sense this!! Ahhh!! I feel like crying!
Dee
Tell me about it! :(
but nowadays I don't even want to listen to her explain what the hell changed her!
i know this much is true,
your friends dont an explanation.
and your enemies wont believe you anyway....which are you?
Mmmm....
i forgot the "need" word second line up there...
i'm not explaining BTW! P~
Okay, no need to explain, she kinda lied. bs el salfa habla.. I don't want explains! I want her to call! I'll act like ma 9ar shai I promise :P Leo, a7sk one of my cousinz fj2ah!
LOL no I am not Saudi :p
I am from somewhere in the South of Europe.
South Europe?
mmm, I'll try guessing that! in your cbox ;)
hmm
Ha, Greece! An explosive mix of Greek, Cypriot and Ukrainian. That explains why I am so damn smart and pretty. LOL!
:^)
Wonder,, Hmmm right back@ ya
QC-
Wow, girl ur greek :P
That's kool!! So what u doin' in Qatar then?? :confused:
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